terça-feira, 6 de abril de 2010

Myself

As long as I have written posts I have never talked about myself and something specific that has changed or that I have learned to deal with. Fortunately, this weekend was a time to know myself better for various reasons and I would like to share this with my fellow readers. Ever since I'm in a relationship I thought we should always denounce to our partner when something is going wrong on our point of view or when we would like something to change. Every time I attempted to talk to my boyfriend about something he did that bothered me and that I would like him to change we began to fight. It was trying and it never ended with a good solution. This weekend things changed, for better. I learned that if I could just let it go, and ignore what he was doing and pretend it didn’t bother me, than our relationship would be a lot more tolerable. It worked. Things flowed better and you feel a lot better when you realize you were able to let small things pass by without making a huge deal about it. This is my tip: to be better with yourself and with your boyfriend or friend, allow things to pass unnoticed.

2 comentários:

Alisha Stafford Feitosa disse...

Good tip. If you really love someone you definitely have to learn to let some things go. And a lot of the time you start noticing that some of the issues have more to do with your feelings about the behavior than any problem with the actual behavior itself.

disse...

good reflection ms. i liked what you said...very wise and true.